11/21/2010

This is what I read for this day.


Can Money Buy Happiness?

The title of the old Americn movie 'Poor little rich girl' answers the question. It is true that at weddings we often hear the newluweds toasted in the words 'Health, Wealth and Hapiness' , but the epithet itself distinguishes berween the three objectives. The fact is that you can be both happy and healthy and poor, by normal standards, at the same time. Yet if you are unhappy, money can only cure your misery in some circumstances. And if you have an incurable illness no amount of money can buy the treatment to reverse that condition.

Most people would accept that the human being is a composite of body, mind and spirit. Each of those parts has separate needs which must be fulfilled if happiness is to result. This fulfilment is most often, though not always, achieved through the love and companionship found in a good marriage. The newlyweds referred to above may start out together with few possesions and little money and still be blissfully happy. Body, mind and spirit are fulfilled. Yet marital happiness is not a static thing. As the couple grow older they change, and happiness has to be constantly worked for if it is to mature into lifelong love and friendship. Sadly enough the divorce rate in the west shows that many couples lack that incentive, and are not prepared to show the unselfishhness and willingness to put the needs of each other first, necessary if happiness is to last. Very often, this process of alienation goes on at the very time when the couple are getting past their money problems. when the pennies no longer have to be counted.

this situation is highlighted when money never has been a problem lem, as in the case of some of the British royal family. Differences in outlook, i.e. in mind and spirit, sever relationships most effectively. Whereas one roral, for instance, was interested only in farming and country pursuits, the wife, some years ago, decided to devote her life to ' Save the Children' . Money never entered the equation. They are permanently separated. Mind and spirit had grown apart.

If  'old' money can be irrelevant, 'new' money can be a positive menace. Every week in England somebody becomes a sterling millionaire having entered a winning football pool forecast. More often than not, the winner's cry is ' spend, spend, spend!' and the money soon goes. In the process, homes shatter, bad relationships are formed, drugs and alcohol are abused, and often the winner ends up with nothing.

So at least this can be said. Money itself is neutral. The ideal is wise stewardship, i.e. its proper use, which generally means making one's existing lifestyle more comfortable, but using excess icome for charitable purposes. Money should not be seen as the key to luxury and self-indulgence. Money is not the root of all evil, but the correct version is true enoguth; 'the love fo money is the root of all evil' ( Christian New Testament ). The love of money is a cold, alienating obseession. Was Howard Hughes a happy man?

How Does Children Spend Their Time?

Hello good afternoon, now is 1.38pm saturday

I would like to share with you guys what I had been seen a essay....

"how does children spend their time?"

I very agree what they're telling us...

     Children today spend hours in front of the television playing video games. Video games were first introduced in the 1970s, but it wasn't until the 1980s that they became very popular. A recent study shows that the two most preferred categories are games that involve martial arts and sports. If we take a look at some of the games available, we will see that many of them have violence as the underlying theme.

     What makes these games so popular? According to experts, these games allow children to be destructive without fear of being reprimanded. Recent psychological experiments have shown that playing these violent games stimulates at least slight cruelty in children and adults, too. It increases aggressive behaviour. Another effect of the violence in these video games is that it can desensitise children to violence. It can give them the idea that violence is an acceptable way to deal with problems and conflict.

     However, not everyone views video games negatively. Some people believe that it is better for a child to actively play video games than to passively watch television. Speculations have also been made by some professionals who claim that by playing video games, certain children can develop a sense of proficency which they might not otherwise achieve, Some video games have educational value. Some progrms are designed to allow children to explore different places or environments while others are developed to teach and drill specific facts or academic skills.

     As a leisure activity, playing such games can be fun, challenging, exciting and it is also a part of a "kid's world". When a child owns a PC or a video game system, it opens up opportunities for him or her to invite other kids to play, therefore, enhancing or forming friendships.

     So, what can parents do? Parents should limit playing time as well as minitor their children's game selection according to developmental level and game content. While playing video games is fun, it can be addictive. Thus, it is important or parents to draw the line, Take them outside and involve them in other acivities. Set aside a quiet time for reeading. Parents should also set the example. They should not use video games as babysitters. Parents and professionals should also seek creative and availability of games that are relatively pro-social, educational and fun.
     In recent years, computer games have attracted much attention. There have been questions raised on whether computer games have had negative effects on children or whether society has oveerreacted. Thus, the potential effects should be looked into.

30.9.2010

Today

wednesday

at shool

betrayed by my friend(Rihana)

he snaped my underwear(grey color)

and I acident took his wallet back home

his wallet is same as mine

body glove

5pm

I took a nap until 7something

then went for badminton

don't know what happend

I can't even run to infront to catch the ball

my elephant legs

10pm

I cooked something

Very delicious

Naget with mayonnaise

OMG

damn nice

Just now 11.30pm

rushing in and out from toilet

XD

Maybe the naget was not fresh

but

Im sure was not my cooking's problem

...

The other side my mom

bought watermelon

and It was damn big

Just like 2size of a basketball

I capture it just now

okay

that's all for today

good night

!

last few days I went to camp

3days 2night

It was very fun

I enjoy that camp

I love It

 I gonna share some photos

hi

dear friends

Im Very Tired

Just went back home from camp

I'll share with you guys later on

see ya

Just now 10.30pm

parentSSSSS scolded me nicely

quite angry

I don't have this feeling since long time duhh

my heart had collected a lots of bad memory

but I wan to thanks god

you give me the weapon

" forgiveness "

I do to use most of the time

=X

Today

Sleepy

Playing

Cocking

Craping

Irritatting

Playing

Freaking tired

Bored

Nonsense

!

F U C K N E S S

16September2010

He's concert will Held on

16September 2010

" Han Chiang Hall "

He's LAME
!

He will " suck banana suck banana~ "

at HanChiangHall

Fulls Of Banana..

NAH o0o
!

Just a Joke

But Is not fun =)

gg

guys

now is sunday 23.01

last day of my holiday

tomorrow had wakup early

study like a guai zai

can't gaming

cant feel the sounds of shooting

cant running with orange school beg ( c4 )

cant feel like in battle field

!!

I only can gaming after

2WEEKS

because

I had to go for camping

organized by Church's TeacherSSSSSS

a lots of my friends

that we together since 6years old

or whatever

a lots of girls also

few lenglui

haha

Becarefull yeahhh!!

It might be dangerous at night

OR

I might won't

!

tomorrow is tuesday

continue my school life

Lame

Alright

nothing i gonna to share today

Got to go bed

GoodNight Bloggies

Tadaa, with little slices of pork. It's RM4 for a small bowl and RM4.80 for a big one. I ordered the small one, it was okay. Not very tasty but I'm relieved the uncle didn't scoop the oily surface because I told him I didn't want any spiciness. The kwuay teow was overcooked, very soggy.

Is Being Good Enough!?

Yesterday I heard my friends who are camping with me telling that I'm a good person because I do a lot of nice things and stuff. But really, when I seat back and reflect upon my soul and consider, I'm not even the slightest good person I can look for. Sure there are some qualities that I am proud of. But, if I were to continue on my road on leading a purposeful life which is one that has to be constantly growing and improving myself, I'm no where near there.
When examining myself, I still lie, cheat, get angry easily at some people and still do all sort of things, all these are not the good attitude. Of course some people might say, "Don't be too hard on yourself, not everyone is perfect," as Im christian roman catholic, Jesus teach me to being polite and " forgive people who hurt you "
The problem is that, too many people are out there waiting to be saved. But, what is the point of going to them and telling all the "nice" words to them about Christ and how we try to live Christ-like when I still am not right with my walk with God. It's the whole point of being a hypocrite that hinders me as a Christian who is supposes to live like Him but not Him. I still remember the words from Pastor Edmund Chan during the Discipleship Conference. He says "People love Jesus Christ, but not many are like Jesus Christ." These words alone just shake me. As everyday, when I walk out the doors of my room or even being in my room I need to remember that I am watched not by God, but also the people around me.
You see, it is tough to be a Christian. Even with all the blessings that may come from God, it does come with a price. As I remember reading in the Old Testament. God will only bless the children of Israel when they follow and obey his commandments. If not, He will send curses that will not only effect me but until my children's children. This alone shows that in order to get the blessings that I want from God, I must first put right with myself.

( I refer some words from bible )

 

 

Wish list

Buy Counter-strike source -done
Buy New Helmet -done
Buy New Razer Headset- done
Buy New Razer Mousepad- done
Get motor license -done
Get New CPU- done
Get New Keyboard -done
Buy Steam's games: ( CALL OF DUTY MODERN WARFARE 2 STIMULUS MAP PACK) -coming soon
Buy Nokia Express Music 5800 -Hard
Get New razer Mouse -coming soon
Back Sabah play with my old friends and cousin -coming soon

1. Does it matter to you if your boyfriend or girlfriend smoke?

YEAH! Smoking kills!

2. How about drinking?

Not too much lor, one glass maybe? -..-! nonsence

3. Do you like someone you can't have?

NOPE! =)

4. If someone liked you right now, would you want them to tell you?
Hmmm, I dont know. Seriously

5. What's your favourite sport?

swimming. because can relax during swim! good for boneeeesssssss

6. Its Saturday night, and you're home alone... what do you do?

Gaming? Counter-strike? :p

7. Do you like roller coasters?

Not the loopy ones!

8. When's the perfect time to have a bf/gf?
19sharp? wait the time that i could earn first.

9. If you could date any celebrity, who would it be?

I won't tell you..FUCKOFF

10. What are you doing this weekend?

Gaming, Tuition, Camping, Blogging?

11. What is your favourite restaurant?

Very high class one? like victory station? TAO ?

12. Have you ever hugged someone?

YESH!

13. Ever kissed someone you weren't attracted to?

NO!

14. Do you like anyone right now?

Of course I do. Sohai question you got

15. What is the first thing you notice about the opposite sex?
Eyess!

16. Which do you prefer, Beach or Mountains?

Both also quite nice whaat

17. What kind of phone do you have?

Sony ericsson

18. Computer or Laptop?

Anything that's can function well

19. Jeans or Sweats?

Jeans lor!

20. Which year(s) has/have been the best so far?

Every year!

21. How old are you gonna be on your next birthday?

17!

22. What should you be doing right now?

Emmm, nothing?

23. What is your favourite TV show?

I dont watch tv

24. What's been your last purchase?

A bottle of water

25. Are you attracted to girls/boys that smoke?

NOPE

26. Have you ever fallen on your butt in front of a crowd of people?

I think so :/

27. What do you do when you're at home?

Read, go online etc etc

28. What is your favourite subject?

NOTHING! REALLY!

29. What's the best thing that's ever happened to you?

Everything but that bad ones. :)

30. Tag 10 people:
I'm not going to tag anyone, unless they wanna do it, cause no one does tags

Last few days

Went to Autocity 

with few cousin and my dad's friend

we went to " TAO " and ate a lot

just almost like " sapu "

very happy memoryxxx

I captured those when I was there

I love the taste

!!

I wanna share something

I bought my new CPU

 Window 7 Home Premium With 1 Year License (64-bit )

Cool Master Casing For Gaming / 5Fan available

 AMD Phenom(tm) II x4 965 Black Edition Processor 3.40GHz

 

 AMD ATI Radeon HD 5970. Gaming Graphic/ Housing Design

 

 AMD RAM BLACK EDITION DDR3 2GB x2

 

A780GM-A Motherboard plug in AMD 780G Chipset

Razer Barracuda Sound Card 7.1 Surrounding






I sing this song when I was 10
sometimes after gaming
I'll sing
or even when im bored
!!




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The whispers in the morning
Of lovers sleeping tight
Are rolling like thunder now
As I look in your eyes


I hold on to your body
And feel each move you make
Your voice is warm and tender
A love that I could not forsake


(first chorus)
'Cause I am your lady
And you are my man
Whenever you reach for me
I'll do all that I can


Lost is how I'm feeling lying in your arms
When the world outside's too
Much to take
That all ends when I'm with you


Even though there may be times
It seems I'm far away
Never wonder where I am
'Cause I am always by your side


(repeat first chorus)


(second chorus)
We're heading for something
Somewhere I've never been
Sometimes I am frightened
But I'm ready to learn
Of the power of love


The sound of your heart beating
Made it clear
Suddenly the feeling that I can't go on
Is light years away


(repeat first chorus)
(repeat second chorus)